Can I get some motivation???

Monday is my cleaning day. I vacuum, make sure everything is put away, clean the bathrooms, kitchen, etc. But today, I just really, really, really, don't want to clean today. Really. So instead I'm online wasting precious time. Did I mention how much I don't want to clean?

Soliciters

Can I just say that I HATE dealing with people who are trying to sell me stuff. If I ever turn them down I can't wait to tell John because I'm so proud of myself. Usually if I look out the window and see that I don't know the person, I'll make John answer the door so that he can deal with the pestering people. So obviously I'm writing this because I had to deal with one of these pesky people today. I had to spend precious minutes listening to her rant about how she can get a scholarship, and how she's been out all day, how sweaty her head is underneath all her hair, how she put on sunscreen but is still sunburned anyway, how she'll even give me some money if I'll just buy a subscription, how she's been working at this for twelve weeks, blah, blah ,blah, blah, blah. You can get subscriptions on eBay for super cheap right, so why in the world would I spend SIXTY dollars for a stupid magazine. I wouldn't. Unless I was put into this unbearable situation. Ugh. First she is telling me the cheapest one is 48, so of course she suckers me into it eventually (all while I'm thinking about all the other ways I'd rather spend that money) but then when I'm writing the check, she fesses up to the detail she conveniently didn't mention before-the FIFTEEN dollars for shipping and handling or something stupid like that. So I'm getting these super awesome children's magazines for only about ten dollars a piece. Super Swell Deal. And I can't help but wonder if anything she told me was true. Did she really only have to get 2 more people....Was she really out all day....It all seems like too much of a perfected scheme to sucker people like me into spending money on something they normally would never even consider. Oh yeah, to top it all off she felt the need to hug me at the very end. Seriously? You feel the need to get intimate like that with a complete stranger. That whole bit left me almost as uncomfortable as buying the magazines. And in case she told anyone of my neighbors out there that I suggested she visit them...NOT TRUE! Although I couldn't wait for her to leave my porch, I didn't lose my integrity by selling out a neighbor to hurry up her departure.

Will it be enough?

So I was feeling discouraged lately and trying to pinpoint the reason. I decided it wasn't the busyness of my life. I like being busy and I find satisfaction and joy in the things I'm doing. But I realized it centered more around the fact that I was always feeling as though I was falling short in all of my responsibilities. It just seemed like I was always thinking of all these other things I could be doing as a wife, a mother, a YW pres, an individual. So I started wondering why that was so discouraging, why was thinking about different things I could be doing upsetting? I realized that it centered around the question, "Will it be enough." The list of good things we could be doing in our lives is endless. Of course we can't do them all. So why do we stress out about it. Ultimately for me, what it really comes down to is wondering if what I am doing as a mother will be enough for my children to gain their own testimonies, to establish a relationship with their Savior, to be responsible, kind, wise, loving adults, to develop their gifts and talents. Is what I am doing as a wife enough for John to know that I love him, is it enough for him to feel supported, enough for us to stay close to each other. Is what I am doing with the Young Women in our ward enough to strengthen them, to help them be strong in resisting temptation, to build their testimonies and faith, to believe that they are daughters of a Heavenly Father who loves them? Is what I am doing right now as an individual enough to develop my own gifts and talents, is it enough to show the Lord my gratitude for all that He has given me, is it enough my Him to be pleased with me? That is what I really worry about. It isn't really about all the different things I could/should/want to be adding to my day. What I really care about is if it is enough. And that is where faith comes in. I truly believe that the Lord led and directed my life so that I would be in my exact circumstances right now, so that I would have the kids I do, with the ages they are, so that I would be in this calling in this particular ward, etc. I have had many experiences where the Spirit has testified to me that those things are true. I also believe that the Lord can strengthen me and magnify my time and effort so that I can accomplish whatever he requires of me. I loved in general conference when they talked about how there is such a thing as overdoing. That the Lord will accept that which is enough. I have faith in the Lord that He has placed me in the circumstances I am in, that He can guide and direct me, that He can strengthen and magnify the things that I do so that it will be enough. When I realized that, the discouragement went away. I'm grateful to Heavenly Father for helping me to realize the truth of the situation I am in. And I'm grateful that if I trust the Lord, rely on Him, and seek His guidance in how I spend my time and energies, that the answer will be yes. Yes, it is enough.

Wishful Thinking

Once again I'm wishing that I could be more than I am. I feel like I'm just falling short in everything. I only have so much time and so much energy (rather low with all the nighttime feedings) and it is a constant battle to not get down on myself for everything I want to be doing, or think I should be doing, or wish I could be doing. I wish I had more time to play with my children-that whenever they asked me to play baseball or a game or barbies or something that I could always say yes. Maybe if there wasn't any cooking,cleaning, or laundry to be done. I wish that I had amazing dinners waiting for John when he came home. I wish that I never got impatient with all the requests that were coming from four very little mouths. I wish I could give each young woman in the ward personal encouragement and any physical help they need each day. I wish that I was completely on top of scrapbooking and blogging our family history. I wish that my house was always in order and my bathrooms always clean. I wish that I was doing more to ease my mom's grief. I wish that I could find the time and energy to work out every day. I wish I could find the time each day to practice the guitar and or finish the song I'm trying to write. I wish that I could find 15 uninterrupted minutes to study my scriptures each day. The list could go on forever, but I don't even have the time to finish my thoughts because it is late and John is asking if I'm ready to go to bed. Hmmmmm. There is a time and a season to all things right?